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"A child who has never been allowed to see his parents and brothers and sisters naked sees nudity as something shocking.
--Dr. Helga Fleishhauer Hardt, SHOW ME
(New York: St. Martin's Press, 1975)
"Being natural and matter-of-fact about nudity prevents your children
from developing an attitude of shame or disgust about the human body.
If parents are very secretive about their bodies and go to great
lengths to prevent their children from ever seeing a buttock or breast,
children will wonder what is so unusual, and even alarming, about human
nudity."
--Dr. Lee Salk, Psychiatrist
(from an article in McCall's Magazine, June, 1976)
"Ideally, parents will unostentatiously allow their children to become
acquainted, from infancy on, with the nude appearance of family
members, juvenile and adult, in the normal course of dressing,
undressing, and bathing." -- Margaret Mead
FREE NUDIST
PICTURES:
(Recreational facilities where clothing is optional) "provide an ideal
environment for families whose policy is to give their children a
healthy regard for the body and a chance at normal, wholesome
psychosexual development." -- John Money, Professor Emeritus,
Johns Hopkins School of Medicine
Is this OK for our
kids?
Imagine two young boys.
One has visited a nudist club many times with his family, the other may
have only rarely seen a parent unclothed, and they may have seemed
embarrassed when that happened.
The non-nudist boy says to his friend, "Look what I've found!" as he
shows the nudist kid a copy of Playboy or some similar magazine, which
he found somewhere.
As they look at the pictures of scantily clothed, erotically posed
women, the boy who has seen hundreds of people of all ages and body
types, will probably think, "I've seen lots of naked people before. Why
does he want to sneak looks at this?" He might also think, "This isn't
even what most people look like."
Growing up without shame:
Puberty can be a very difficult time for adolescents; their bodies are
growing rapidly, their genitals are changing, body hair is developing.
Some kids feel clumsy. Many are embarrassed by the changes that are
taking place. They can become VERY body-conscious. At that time, a wise
parent will try to keep lines of honest communication open but still
give them privacy and time to be alone in their room or with their
friends. Most adolescents would rather be ANYWHERE except where their
parents are.
All these things happen to nudist kids, too. The one big difference for
kids who were lucky enough to grow up in a nudist environment is that
those kids have literally seen those changes take place, as their older
friends and/or siblings went through that difficult time. Because of
that experience, they are better prepared for it themselves.
Some other interesting facts
about more
mature
nudists:
Surveys show that overall, adults who were reared as nudists think of
their childhoods as having been stable. They also find that nudists
tend to be very slightly better educated than their non-nudist
peers.
The divorce rate is lower among nudist families, and their children
tend to make better grades than similar children in non-nudist
families.
I don't think that this is BECAUSE the families are nudists; it's more
likely that the marriages are more stable AND their kids make good
grades AND the families are nudists because the family members tend to
communicate a little more openly with each other in their daily
lives.
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